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The Trap of New Years Resolutions - Part 1
For many people, the beginning of the year is a time to make new year’s resolutions. These can vary from fitness goals to career related...

Gome Simfukwe
Jan 15, 20194 min read
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Christmas - A time for seeing
A few years ago, I had the honour of officiating at my sister’s wedding. As I contemplated what to say during the ceremony, I was drawn...

Gome Simfukwe
Dec 21, 20184 min read
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Success - Where Identity meets Vocation
Saturday marked 12 months since I walked out of the RAC having worked there for 15 years. When I first joined the RAC 15 years ago, I was...

Gome Simfukwe
Dec 5, 20185 min read
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Trauma & Attachment - Part 2
In my last blog I introduced the concepts of #attachment and #trauma and attempted to draw a link between the two. We explored these...

Gome Simfukwe
Nov 23, 20186 min read
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Trauma and Attachment - Part 1
Introduction After my last few blogs I have had some interesting feedback from various folk. Some people who have known me for many years...

Gome Simfukwe
Nov 17, 20184 min read
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Accountability vs Freedom
In my previous blog, I explored, through the lens of my story, how the pain experienced in our youth can affect our choices as adults. I...

Gome Simfukwe
Nov 11, 20184 min read
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Boys to Men - Towards an Integrated Understanding of Men
A few decades ago the world witnessed an interesting phenomenon in the form of the women’s liberation movement. As is the case with many...

Gome Simfukwe
Nov 5, 20184 min read
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The tragedy of self - the postmodern dilemma
In Greek mythology, Narcissus was a hunter who was known for his beauty. He was proud and disdained those who loved him, causing some to...

Gome Simfukwe
Oct 27, 20184 min read
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Bali Contemplations - Who am I?
25/10/18 Driving in Canggu, on the popular shortcut road to the picturesque beach club ‘The Lawn’, my Grab driver made an interesting...

Gome Simfukwe
Oct 25, 20183 min read
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